So how do pseudo-relationships work in the first place? Do you get to place bets on who would text first? Is there any written understanding that you both should be together all the time, or you both you should go out together and do something?
Because I was so used to his text messages 23/7, you can just imagine my bewilderment when 2 days has passed by and nada. No message. No load? Impossible.
Then my friends were, “Don’t ever. Ever. Make the first move and text him.”
And i didn’t. And it went on for four days. I told my cousin Anton, “Tony, starting today, I’m going to be a man-hater.”
“Its just going to take a text message to make you change your mind.” He said.
He was right. Four days after, my beau texted. Sigh. All my efforts of not hitting the send button after several attempts of texting hi paid off.
Then he made plans.
Then he insinuated that he missed me.
Did i just say I hate men?
I don’t remember.