Ever wondered who’s in my little black blook? I ever wondered where(!) my little black book is!
Now that I’m single (i.e. Loving it) I am happy to browse thru those cutesie pages and prolly get someone who is probably unattached. Hmm. Or better yet, get a new black book and store new men?
But I have a small black book in my head though. They are handy on those days when you are bored and you wanted someone to dote on you hand and foot. I can still remember those guys I’ve been with. Reminiscent of an article I made long back, these guys’ characters can all be applied in one movie. All Star Cast. Just like that of the Bench Underwear Show. Whew. Hott.
I dated this guy from Iran. Let’s just say he’s tall in every aspect you can think of. He’s absolutely gorgeous – well, a little lanky for my taste but he’s tall so its fine. Studying at a medical school in Cebu is quite challenging because he hardly speaks English very well which means that us dating would be a language disaster. We need a translator everytime we’re going out (i.e. His cousin) and it isn’t sexy to flirt and wait for the sexy comeback after it is translated. But love, sex, flirting and everything else is the universal language.
I knew of a 16 year old Ryan* who I met at bar who definitely doesn’t look 16. Big guy, huge chest, tall – when we got to the door, we were all asked for Ids and his turned out to be his high school ID. Not hot. But you gotta hand it to these young men, they are verrry aggressive.
How is the Parisian singer who used to croon to me love songs on stage? He is the simplest human being who doesn’t think about himself at all. He sings because its what he loves to do and its also his way of subsisting in this world. He gives. He is generous. He already has an album out. Kudos.
An ex who left in the Middle East had been fun. My high school was very colorful. Drugs, alcohol, and sex. Very rock and roll, not? He was very smart where computers – and his dick were involved.
I remembered of a very lanky, very goofy boyfriend before now turned chef now turned Mr. Responsible. I’m proud of that guy. He just got out from rehab and now his life is going well for him. Turning into a new leaf. Basil, with paprika spread on the side.
Seeing a guy who studies law might let you think twice about engaging into any intimate activity with him because it isn’t sexy to be staring at his room’s ceiling when all forms of articles, and R.A. and law-whatsis are posted on it. You don’t want to talk and argue at the same time also. He just thinks he is too smart for me. Sigh. I let him think that but it still isn’t enough.
Dating a former gym instructor is hot until you suddenly find yourself getting conscious of his eating habits. It makes you wonder if he likes you or he likes himself more.
What I found hot is seeing someone on the sly when you know he has a girlfriend who dotes on him hand and foot. Does my forehead scream bitch right now? She’s totally so into this long term relationship when her boyfriend is seeing me when she’s asleep. I feel bad now. Tsk tsk.
And my friend Mark said I could pass as Miss United Nations for dating a Korean hottie. He was smart who speaks English very well and wanted to teach English in Korea. Its just endearing that whenever we had to go out my friends would tag along and it’ll be like he was dating all 4 girls together.
Seeing also someone older is very you-know-its-forbidden-but-its-still-something-you-want. Or so i thought. He was in his early 40s who I know would make my dad raise hell if he found out. Sophisticated, well-off, classy, worldy and handsome. I saw him at Starbucks cafe drinking his coffee accompanied by his laptop, N9300 and other gadgets wired to his broad chest. He told me he owned a beach resort in the outskirts of Cebu which happened to be breathtaking when we got there. The guy wanted someone to replace his wife. I wasn’t ready to have a sugar daddy at my age.
From past experiences, I finally get that Chinese men all have one thing in common after seeing three men..
…which made me so proud of Filipinos and basketball players. Yes. Him.
But this other basketball player I dated was the blahs. All show, all talk, all blahs. His arrogance CANNOT compensate for the things that should matter down there.
In all fairness, it is fun to be seeing cousins both at the same time. Even also bestfriends who have no idea.
What’s worse is seeing your friend’s ex-boyfriend who wasn’t totally worth all the trouble that it has caused an end to our friendship.
I was amused that I had been seeing someone who was married because I know it will not be funny to some but because its not funny it became funny to me to think that people have actually tolerated me to do so. He has a wife who constantly looks for him 24/7 and a cute son who also loves music like his dad. Still, the entire thing was shortlived because of gasp propriety. (after three dates, have we gone past appropriate?)
Lastly on my black book is my beau who (sigh) still is undefined and will forever be like that. He is a happy go lucky guy already at his prime and doesn’t want the drama and the hassles that go along with relationship therefore everything is carefree and nothing is conditioned at all.
I guess its time to get myself a new black book. The game has become tiring.
To my men, I will see you all soon. Sometime.
* not their real names.