A lover is always an imperfect person who does the perfect things which is why my version of an imperfect lover transcends expectations.
He is patient with me but doesn’t tolerate being put down just because he needs to give in especially when in the presence of a woman.
He is strong and has strong principles but bends under any extenuating circumstance.He is independent and has another life besides the one he has with me.
He is close with his family and sends his mother a gift during her birthday. He knows his way around the kitchen and can whip up an amazing dish which i cannot pronounce nor spell.
He doesn’t need to be rich as long as he is resourceful and knows how to handle his finances (because i can’t). Because he is loving, caring, and thoughtful, he should be corny and sappy.
He does not have to be romantic because if he does the slightest romantic thing, it will automatically make me giddy because i know it is so unlike him.
He is confident but not arrogant; cocky but not superficial.
He drinks alcohol and can hold his drink for hours without being ass-drunk. He doesn’t smoke.
He can make me shut up. He can make me unselfish.
He is big and tall that when he reaches out to hug me the light closes out and im enveloped into the warmest place ever. He makes love like it is always the first time and makes certain that both of us are spent. (*wink*)
He loves tugging on my hair.He can carry a tune even if he is just reading the subtitles.
He should be HOT. He doesn’t like to go shopping with me but would be willing to wait at a coffee shop while I’m done.
He doesn’t need to be tight with my buddies but he has moments with them. He doesn’t have to be a straight A student but he is smart enough to battle intellectual challenges.
He doesn’t have to be a dancer but his body can move along with mine. He is wise enough to argue with me and put me in my place because I tend to feel like i’m right all the time.
His sex drive must match mine. He likes to socialize but would love to just stay at home on weekends and just do nothing.
His sense of humor must be quick-witted and green. He hates that I constantly fuss over makeup but still buys me an eyeliner he saw in Nars on sale.
He is not vain but he looks after how he looks. Therefore, he is fit.
He tolerates my knack for being kikay and waits patiently while i take forever to dress up.He lets me have fun without him but panics when I cannot be reached.
He already knows what I am going to say next after an argument but still says it because he knew i’d react.He doesn’t let me depend on him but fusses over on me getting home safe whenever i’m out.
He stays up late until I get home from a nite out.He tells me he loves me once a month but he means it more than anyone else has said i love you to anybody.
He is secure about his masculinity to joke about being gay and act like one.He can hold my hand for the longest time and not complain about the sweat between them.
He is not old-fashioned but he listens to classics such as Stevie Wonder. He may not be into my music but still listens to my playlist whenever the mood strikes him.Lastly, its great if we complement each other. his faults would be my strengths and his strengths would be my faults.